Friday, August 31, 2012
What Makes You Happy?
I really like to talk about this topic but my head is so heavy already. I've got to go out tomorrow...urgh I'm so lazy..I'll make a post about this tomorrow...zzzzzz...sweet dream!
Dr. Oz: The Science of Why Men Cheat
When I spent my holidays at my hometown I was watching a medical discovery program. Hurmm..I think I still love discovery programs since I was kid till I'm old enough...It's being hosted by a medical doctor. His talk show is addressed as "The Dr Oz Talk Show". I was watching that program as it's kind of interesting to know what's the scientific facts why men tend to cheat.
So these are some of the info that been shared by Dr Oz and his panels.
"Dr. Oz said that over 50% of men have cheated in a relationship in their life, and we all know that rebuildin trust at that point is sometimes impossible. In Dr. Oz’s audience, 30% of the people believe that they have been cheated on. Gary Neuman wrote The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It, because he wanted to empower women and let them know that this is how men think. Neuman said only 8% of cheaters say it is about sex, 48% say they are looking for an emotional connection, 88% say the woman they cheat with is not better looking or in better shape than their wife, and 77% of cheating men had friends who also cheated."
It made me think twice of the "88% fact". It sort of wasted for the men since they got "worse women" rather than their wive. I'm not supporting any men's cheat but since they did it wut could we do then? So since they did it at the very first place why didn't they find the hot gucci mama? LOLOL.. It's kind of relief that I'm a gal, I don't know what happen if I'm being born as a man. I must be that super playboy on the whole entire milky way! LOL. Well, ignore my stupid rambling. I'm happy enough to be a gal :)
Back to Dr Oz show, I think the talk show is very nice and full with a lot of good information. I found his website and I think it's gonna be a good resource for all of us. I share his website here:
http://www.doctoroz.com
ahh..I almost forget to share the other content about that show which I think that kind of interesting.
5 Key Signs Your Man is Cheating:
1. Less Sex
If you are having less sex than usual, this is Dr. Oz’s first sign of cheating.
2. Avoids Contact
If he avoids having contact with you, this is Dr. Oz’s second sign of cheating.
3. Criticizes More
If he is becoming more critical of you or criticizes you often, this is Dr. Oz’s third sign of cheating.
4. Starts Fights
If he is starting more fights with you, this is Dr. Oz’s fourth sign of cheating.
5. Away From Home A Lot
And the number one sign of cheating is if your husband or man is away from home a lot. A woman’s intuition is really the best way to tell if a man is cheating… if you have a gut feeling, unfortunately, you are probably correct.
Gary Neuman’s research has found that men do not reform completely, and this concerns Dr. Oz because that could mean that even though you think you are in a monogamous relationship, you could get a sexually transmitted infection (STI’s). Did you know that 10% of people who think they are in committed relationships still get STI’s? Lisa Flowers says that this statistic is shocking and horrifying, but this is exactly why everyone should always get tested.
So these are some of the info that been shared by Dr Oz and his panels.
"Dr. Oz said that over 50% of men have cheated in a relationship in their life, and we all know that rebuildin trust at that point is sometimes impossible. In Dr. Oz’s audience, 30% of the people believe that they have been cheated on. Gary Neuman wrote The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It, because he wanted to empower women and let them know that this is how men think. Neuman said only 8% of cheaters say it is about sex, 48% say they are looking for an emotional connection, 88% say the woman they cheat with is not better looking or in better shape than their wife, and 77% of cheating men had friends who also cheated."
It made me think twice of the "88% fact". It sort of wasted for the men since they got "worse women" rather than their wive. I'm not supporting any men's cheat but since they did it wut could we do then? So since they did it at the very first place why didn't they find the hot gucci mama? LOLOL.. It's kind of relief that I'm a gal, I don't know what happen if I'm being born as a man. I must be that super playboy on the whole entire milky way! LOL. Well, ignore my stupid rambling. I'm happy enough to be a gal :)
Back to Dr Oz show, I think the talk show is very nice and full with a lot of good information. I found his website and I think it's gonna be a good resource for all of us. I share his website here:
http://www.doctoroz.com
ahh..I almost forget to share the other content about that show which I think that kind of interesting.
5 Key Signs Your Man is Cheating:
1. Less Sex
If you are having less sex than usual, this is Dr. Oz’s first sign of cheating.
2. Avoids Contact
If he avoids having contact with you, this is Dr. Oz’s second sign of cheating.
3. Criticizes More
If he is becoming more critical of you or criticizes you often, this is Dr. Oz’s third sign of cheating.
4. Starts Fights
If he is starting more fights with you, this is Dr. Oz’s fourth sign of cheating.
5. Away From Home A Lot
And the number one sign of cheating is if your husband or man is away from home a lot. A woman’s intuition is really the best way to tell if a man is cheating… if you have a gut feeling, unfortunately, you are probably correct.
Gary Neuman’s research has found that men do not reform completely, and this concerns Dr. Oz because that could mean that even though you think you are in a monogamous relationship, you could get a sexually transmitted infection (STI’s). Did you know that 10% of people who think they are in committed relationships still get STI’s? Lisa Flowers says that this statistic is shocking and horrifying, but this is exactly why everyone should always get tested.
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
Learn the foreign Language
I was rambling about michinnom yesterday and made a joke about how to learn the foreign language faster. So I think it's fine for me to talk about this.
P/S: (serious note: no need to read this post if you could learn the foreign languages easily as I'm not talking about how to learn them from books solely. Some geeks may think my rambling is rubbish)
The first foreign language that I learnt was English. When I was kid I loved to watch English programs (cartoon, Sesame Streets, movies or any discovery programs) but the most important thing-----those programs came with the subs.
I did tend to listen well to the words and compared them with the subs. Additionally, while I was watching the program I would also pick some words that could attract me very well. One of the example is "deadlock". I was in primary school in that time, I guess around 9 or 10 years old. I watched one animal discovery program and I did automatically like that word without any good reason. So I looked straightaway to the subs. Hence these words were being stuck into my mind without any hardship to memorize them.
By this way I gained my vocab at the very first stage. My mom gave me a handy English vocabulary when I was in my primary. I love it a lot but I don't know where that tiny dictionary now :( It's from my mummy!! I used that dictionary very well and since I did have some vocab already, it's not a hard job to learn the language in school. Besides, I really love how English people pronounce the phrases. So, I enjoyed to learn it as I love it so much.
When I grew up a lil bit older I also watched hindi movies. They also pronounced their phrase so good. Since the words are so good to my ears, I used the same TV method as I learnt English. But this time, it's kind of a bit different as it more attract me that much as they have so many similar words that has the same meaning. So of course I learnt it much easier.
Since, I love to watch TV that much... ( sigh~~I hope I won't get any children like me or else I have to give a long speech to them to stop watching tv that much...focus on doing the school's home work although I'm not that person when I was kid. LOL) so I stuck with Latinos drama..Pinoy..Korean..& Japanese.
I used the same method like I used to learn English & Hindi. I also matched the languages..such as Malay & Tagalog..Tagalog & Spanish...Spanish & English.Well, since it just a non formal way to learn those..so I just have some few vocab only.
I also learnt Persian language from my Iranian friends. It's not that they did teach me at first but I listened carefully when they spoke to each other. I don't know but I'm a lil bit more pick up when it's about listening. Therefore I could detect their pronunciation. I realized their words contain a lot of Malay and Hindi words. So started from that I grew some more vocab of other non Malay & Hindi similar Persians words by asking my friends. Hence I understand the language.
Despite of knowing some words from these language, I still couldn't learn Chinese & Tamil languages. I always wonder why. But when I re think about it I know wut's the real reason is. Actually there is only one reason!
P/s don't feel offend, I'm not being racist!
The only reason is those languages couldn't attract me as I need a sweet nice mellow sound when they pronounce the words! ahahahha
Moral of the story: Find something appeal factor that could attract you to the language. Use my method & combine it with the book version in school. Hurmm..I don't know if it works well to you but for me it's the best way.
Since, I like something visible..could be felt..could be touched (I hate ebooks as I couldn't touch the paper..ahahha) so I think you know one thing....
Of course I couldn't be so good in computer programming language bcuz the lang has no sound!!!!! LOL. Seriously I used to ask why I was stuck with computer science..If only I took any engineering...I think I could earn phd long time ago without sweating that much. Damn..Teme!!! (It means stupid in Japanese..it also equivalent to baga..it also a Japanese word) P/s don't put these words in your mind okay..& claim that you learn it from me. LOL.
I even hate programming language for the rest of my life. Err..but what I'm doing now? ahahhaha..As I couldn't make myself to like it....so I made an experiment to console myself. How? I joined the freelance job while I studied. If I get any job so I'll get the money right..so the money is the factor thing that could attract me to learn the language! hehe
I was so stuck back then as my mind couldn't go the programming language channel. LOL. So what do you think of exam's result if I remained that way? Meanwhile, my first university is super strict. Once you get expel..no second chance at all. You could try your best even to rock your country..but nothing could be done okay! It's not my word but it happened. It was being a major story of the country that one girl appealed since she got expelled.
She's a smart student by getting dean list for her 1st sem. But since she was under influence by some student's organization so she couldn't obtain her study. No one guided her as she's an orphanage. Her parent died already. The public mass did report this and tried to appeal for her. It's even got some influenced by some political issue. She regretted on what she did and appealed to the minister.
Could you imagine of the outcome? It's nothing okay! So don't ever dream to be kicked cuz it's gonna be for good.
My experiment worked well, so now I'm using the same method to learn Cobol. LOL. Some people may laugh at me on how I learn the programming thing. What ever. It's not that they help me or give me money. It's about me myself how to survive in this world. :)
Well, I hope some of you may take the good side if you find it useful. But don't take the bad side of me. LOL..good night all, my eyes........I have to go to the office early tomorrow to run the batch!. urggghhh..well it's fine at least it's the last day of the week :)
P/S: (serious note: no need to read this post if you could learn the foreign languages easily as I'm not talking about how to learn them from books solely. Some geeks may think my rambling is rubbish)
The first foreign language that I learnt was English. When I was kid I loved to watch English programs (cartoon, Sesame Streets, movies or any discovery programs) but the most important thing-----those programs came with the subs.
I did tend to listen well to the words and compared them with the subs. Additionally, while I was watching the program I would also pick some words that could attract me very well. One of the example is "deadlock". I was in primary school in that time, I guess around 9 or 10 years old. I watched one animal discovery program and I did automatically like that word without any good reason. So I looked straightaway to the subs. Hence these words were being stuck into my mind without any hardship to memorize them.
By this way I gained my vocab at the very first stage. My mom gave me a handy English vocabulary when I was in my primary. I love it a lot but I don't know where that tiny dictionary now :( It's from my mummy!! I used that dictionary very well and since I did have some vocab already, it's not a hard job to learn the language in school. Besides, I really love how English people pronounce the phrases. So, I enjoyed to learn it as I love it so much.
When I grew up a lil bit older I also watched hindi movies. They also pronounced their phrase so good. Since the words are so good to my ears, I used the same TV method as I learnt English. But this time, it's kind of a bit different as it more attract me that much as they have so many similar words that has the same meaning. So of course I learnt it much easier.
Since, I love to watch TV that much... ( sigh~~I hope I won't get any children like me or else I have to give a long speech to them to stop watching tv that much...focus on doing the school's home work although I'm not that person when I was kid. LOL) so I stuck with Latinos drama..Pinoy..Korean..& Japanese.
I used the same method like I used to learn English & Hindi. I also matched the languages..such as Malay & Tagalog..Tagalog & Spanish...Spanish & English.Well, since it just a non formal way to learn those..so I just have some few vocab only.
I also learnt Persian language from my Iranian friends. It's not that they did teach me at first but I listened carefully when they spoke to each other. I don't know but I'm a lil bit more pick up when it's about listening. Therefore I could detect their pronunciation. I realized their words contain a lot of Malay and Hindi words. So started from that I grew some more vocab of other non Malay & Hindi similar Persians words by asking my friends. Hence I understand the language.
Despite of knowing some words from these language, I still couldn't learn Chinese & Tamil languages. I always wonder why. But when I re think about it I know wut's the real reason is. Actually there is only one reason!
P/s don't feel offend, I'm not being racist!
The only reason is those languages couldn't attract me as I need a sweet nice mellow sound when they pronounce the words! ahahahha
Moral of the story: Find something appeal factor that could attract you to the language. Use my method & combine it with the book version in school. Hurmm..I don't know if it works well to you but for me it's the best way.
Since, I like something visible..could be felt..could be touched (I hate ebooks as I couldn't touch the paper..ahahha) so I think you know one thing....
Of course I couldn't be so good in computer programming language bcuz the lang has no sound!!!!! LOL. Seriously I used to ask why I was stuck with computer science..If only I took any engineering...I think I could earn phd long time ago without sweating that much. Damn..Teme!!! (It means stupid in Japanese..it also equivalent to baga..it also a Japanese word) P/s don't put these words in your mind okay..& claim that you learn it from me. LOL.
I even hate programming language for the rest of my life. Err..but what I'm doing now? ahahhaha..As I couldn't make myself to like it....so I made an experiment to console myself. How? I joined the freelance job while I studied. If I get any job so I'll get the money right..so the money is the factor thing that could attract me to learn the language! hehe
I was so stuck back then as my mind couldn't go the programming language channel. LOL. So what do you think of exam's result if I remained that way? Meanwhile, my first university is super strict. Once you get expel..no second chance at all. You could try your best even to rock your country..but nothing could be done okay! It's not my word but it happened. It was being a major story of the country that one girl appealed since she got expelled.
She's a smart student by getting dean list for her 1st sem. But since she was under influence by some student's organization so she couldn't obtain her study. No one guided her as she's an orphanage. Her parent died already. The public mass did report this and tried to appeal for her. It's even got some influenced by some political issue. She regretted on what she did and appealed to the minister.
Could you imagine of the outcome? It's nothing okay! So don't ever dream to be kicked cuz it's gonna be for good.
My experiment worked well, so now I'm using the same method to learn Cobol. LOL. Some people may laugh at me on how I learn the programming thing. What ever. It's not that they help me or give me money. It's about me myself how to survive in this world. :)
Well, I hope some of you may take the good side if you find it useful. But don't take the bad side of me. LOL..good night all, my eyes........I have to go to the office early tomorrow to run the batch!. urggghhh..well it's fine at least it's the last day of the week :)
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
Michinnom!
Actually this is a Korean word. Since I watch korean dramas & movies a lot, so I have few vocabularies of the language. One of the word that appeals to me so much is "michinnom". What's the meaning???? = Well we could say it as you crazy guy! or bastard LOL! You have to learn the curse words first in order to learn the foreign language faster. ahahahha..nah it just a stupid joke from me. & for the girl we say it as "Michinnyeon". But I like the michinnom much better! ahahaha
Today is the first working day for me after that half long vacation (9 days only). Hehe. So it's not that half heart to go to the office..it almost 0 heart! Seriously it's a disaster. The very first tsunami that happened in the lovely morning was I lost my house key. I tried my best to find it. Last night I threw the key on the floor but I tried to get it, it's not there!! The first michhinnom started. LOL.
I felt like to take an MC bcuz of that key ++++ my laziness but when I thought back how my boss deal for my break so cancel my super sweet angle idea. So I just went to the office and hoping my housemate would go home today as she stayed in her lab to finish her writing journal. I was thinking if she would not go home again I'll stay in hotel and buy the new dress for tomorrow's office wear. It's so tragic! hahahahahahahaha..
So I arrived to the office safely..(sarcastic phrase okay!) When I got there, I found one complete user sign off form. I couldn't recall wut project was it. I tried to dig around but I still in deadlock. My brain was empty! Michinnom for the 2nd. LOL. I was reading my mail...so I knew which project was it.
I supposed to start the new project today so I did. My brain was still empty so I had to re read the user requirement. So I did alter my functional spec and sent it to my boss as the latest FS. I did study the code more and I found out it's not that super peanut (easy) as there is one part that was so confusing. I re read the user requirement again & again for that part. I lost! Kuso (japanese word = shit!) ahahhahaha it's the way to spell it but the right pronunciation is 'kesse"
p/s : don't learn the bad thing from me. LOL
While I was digging the code, I had to do the testing for my other projects. It's not hard..just run few jobs..download the generated reports..send it to the users for a verification and ask other team to process the input file. As I said it's not hard but it's time consuming. Another michinnom bcuz my timing was distracted by some other thing.
I received the email from atos to apply the patch as we have some problem with our input files. It's for my other project. My brain was empty for all those things as it required some steps to compile for our own system testing...then asked the QA to fallback the package..and re compile. Seriously it's another michinnom cuz I had to crack my brain to re remember those steps..but I'm kind of a lil bit lucky cuz I prepared the manual book to work on those things...
The worst part..I did the same process things like I always did for the patch....but something magics happened. The processes couldn't be done although I did the same exact steps many times previously. Could you imagine how I felt in that time? It never ever happened before okay!! So we did discover how to deal with that after trying an error..huh..michinnom again..
The day ended that way and I still don't have any energy to find the key..LOL..errr...let me find it now or else I could faint tomorrow's morning.
Today is the first working day for me after that half long vacation (9 days only). Hehe. So it's not that half heart to go to the office..it almost 0 heart! Seriously it's a disaster. The very first tsunami that happened in the lovely morning was I lost my house key. I tried my best to find it. Last night I threw the key on the floor but I tried to get it, it's not there!! The first michhinnom started. LOL.
I felt like to take an MC bcuz of that key ++++ my laziness but when I thought back how my boss deal for my break so cancel my super sweet angle idea. So I just went to the office and hoping my housemate would go home today as she stayed in her lab to finish her writing journal. I was thinking if she would not go home again I'll stay in hotel and buy the new dress for tomorrow's office wear. It's so tragic! hahahahahahahaha..
So I arrived to the office safely..(sarcastic phrase okay!) When I got there, I found one complete user sign off form. I couldn't recall wut project was it. I tried to dig around but I still in deadlock. My brain was empty! Michinnom for the 2nd. LOL. I was reading my mail...so I knew which project was it.
I supposed to start the new project today so I did. My brain was still empty so I had to re read the user requirement. So I did alter my functional spec and sent it to my boss as the latest FS. I did study the code more and I found out it's not that super peanut (easy) as there is one part that was so confusing. I re read the user requirement again & again for that part. I lost! Kuso (japanese word = shit!) ahahhahaha it's the way to spell it but the right pronunciation is 'kesse"
p/s : don't learn the bad thing from me. LOL
While I was digging the code, I had to do the testing for my other projects. It's not hard..just run few jobs..download the generated reports..send it to the users for a verification and ask other team to process the input file. As I said it's not hard but it's time consuming. Another michinnom bcuz my timing was distracted by some other thing.
I received the email from atos to apply the patch as we have some problem with our input files. It's for my other project. My brain was empty for all those things as it required some steps to compile for our own system testing...then asked the QA to fallback the package..and re compile. Seriously it's another michinnom cuz I had to crack my brain to re remember those steps..but I'm kind of a lil bit lucky cuz I prepared the manual book to work on those things...
The worst part..I did the same process things like I always did for the patch....but something magics happened. The processes couldn't be done although I did the same exact steps many times previously. Could you imagine how I felt in that time? It never ever happened before okay!! So we did discover how to deal with that after trying an error..huh..michinnom again..
The day ended that way and I still don't have any energy to find the key..LOL..errr...let me find it now or else I could faint tomorrow's morning.